In the 1980s I heard that a psychotherapist had said to a patient –
in tears, on the verge of a nervous breakdown – feeling better grounded
would take time; it would be like turning an ocean liner around.
I always liked that idea and understood that it could apply to any one of us
and certainly to me with my increasingly sensitive hearing and frazzled heart,
but I did not understand that it might also involve cutting back, time set apart
for trimming the engines, within me and – how? – slipping away from all the corporate machines
with their electronic networks spying and surveilling – autonomy trampled –
selling connections, sometimes called friends, just to get us more entangled.
Slowly but surely, like a marine biologist helping a trapped and uninteresting fish
escape from his nets, I have been cutting the strings, freeing myself to swim again,
all alone – unless one of these days I run into another swimmer! – headed, like me, for the deep end.
And yet, as I keep cutting and setting apart – or is it As the Boat Turns?
I’m at sea, in any case, and curious about freedom – what may I learn?
— Poem and drawing (after David Park’s Two Bathers) by William Eaton
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I love both the poem and the art. You’re right–about the ship turning.
On Tue, Apr 17, 2018 at 6:13 AM, montaigbakhtinian wrote:
> William Eaton posted: “In the 1980s I heard that a psychotherapist had > said to a patient In tears, on the verge of a nervous breakdown – feeling > better grounded Would take time; it would be like turning an ocean liner > around. I always liked that idea and unde” >