Etiquette

The palest of intimacies

FROM SEQUENCE 2 March 2000 Many men, I assume, have fantasies that involve dispensing with the negotiations and preliminaries of civilized sexual conquest. For instance, seeing an attractive woman—a waitress, perhaps, a woman at a conference, in a hotel—they imagine… Read More ›

Fear of the Self

FROM SEQUENCE 1 February 1999 Later published as “Kleptomania and its Discontents” in Choices: A Chapbook — World Voices, Web del Sol I am not sure that a person can decide not to be, say, a kleptomaniac or voyeur, nor does… Read More ›